The Energy of Death

When my partner's mother returned home from the hospital with a terminal cancer diagnosis, she filled her room with a dozen roses, knowing her mother adored them. Initially, the flowers thrived, but as time went on, they began to wilt faster—eventually needing replacement every couple of days. Just before her mother passed away, the roses would perish within hours.

“Death possesses a profound energy,” my partner explained, helping me grasp the exhaustion I felt after visiting a dying relative. Following a series of health setbacks, he was diagnosed with cancer last year, and his condition deteriorated this summer—a cycle of good days and bad days. Whether the illness overwhelmed him or he simply lost the will to live, his essence seemed to fade away, and he passed within the month.

The Weight of Absence

Despite anticipating death, the disorienting transition always leads to an element of shock. Where has that person gone? The wife of a deceased loved one reflects, “I still sense his presence.” Yet, he is absent; his void fills the room and the entire house.

Einstein stated, “Energy cannot be created or destroyed, only transformed.” Why wouldn’t human energy follow the same principle? If we accepted this, wouldn’t it lessen the pain for those left behind? Many ancient and Eastern philosophies assert that only the physical body succumbs to death. Similarly, New Age thinkers and an increasing number of researchers acknowledge the existence of an aura, an energy field surrounding every living being.

Your aura fluctuates based on external influences and internal states. While invisible, it undeniably exists. Something in my partner's mother’s room had enough power to wilt those roses.

Decoding the Cosmos

Understanding the cosmos is beyond my expertise, yet I believe we will one day uncover more about the connection between life and death. Historically, humanity didn’t always recognize that diseases stem from microscopic organisms. Despite our flaws, the quest for knowledge continues. Who knows? If the universe has unknown laws that allow me to observe the physical realm after my time, perhaps one day I’ll witness my descendants exploring other worlds—thanks to the foresight of Gene Roddenberry.

Can Life Persist After Death?

For now, we confront the stark reality that most people accept: death means departure. Losing loved ones is incredibly painful. So, we might wonder, “Is it possible to keep their memory alive?” The concise answer is “yes,” although it’s not entirely satisfying. There’s a catch: individuals leave behind remnants of their essence, stored in our minds—often unreliable vaults for cherished memories. Therefore, accessing the smiles and sayings of those long gone—like my mother who passed nearly 50 years ago or my grandparents—is challenging.

However, those who have departed in the last decade remain vividly alive in my memory. They may not breathe or be physically present, but their influence persists. My close family member who recently passed, my older sister, and my cherished friends, all continue to resonate within me, offering guidance and reminding me of my blessings.

Remarkably, I often feel their presence while going about my daily life—whether I’m walking, reading, or watching television. Unexpected moments occur where I sense their touch, reaching out to me.

Fellow writer Patricia Ross, a wise and grounded individual, shares her belief that her husband, who died in 2011, continues to connect with her. During his illness, they discussed his impending death, and he promised he would try to reach out.

Patricia shares her reflections on these experiences:

“I’ve crafted a narrative that satisfies me, albeit not many others: It’s Ed tapping me on the shoulder, trying to get my attention. A friend once said, ‘How else would he contact you?’ This aligns with how he always believed my extraordinary encounters, validating my experiences.”

After undergoing many of my own unexplained experiences, I resonate with Patricia's insights:

“What these experiences have granted me is not a religious conviction or proof of anything, but rather a sense of continuity: before we’re born, during our lives, and afterward. Beyond that, I’m uncertain, but I feel it to be true.”

Yet, there’s that catch I mentioned:

That person is gone. We long for their physical presence—warmth, laughter, and everything unique to them. We exist in separate dimensions; we can’t be present in both places at once.

Until we unravel these mysteries, until death ceases to be a certainty, I’ll cherish what remains.

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The first video, "Is Death Final? | Episode 1306 | Closer To Truth," delves into the mysteries surrounding death and examines whether it truly marks the end of existence.

The second video, "John Hick - Is Death Final?" presents philosophical perspectives on the nature of life and death, offering insights into the possibility of existence beyond our physical lives.