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Rediscovering Lucid Dreams: My Journey to Sobriety

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The Journey to Lucid Dreaming

In the realm of dreams, there exists a subtle distinction between a typical dream and a lucid one. In essence, a lucid dream allows you to be aware that you are dreaming, which often alleviates the experience. As a child, I frequently encountered lucid dreams, but as time progressed, that ability diminished. When immersed in a lucid dream, it's crucial to remain cautious; attempting to exert too much control can abruptly awaken you. The essence of a lucid dream lies in the balance between having the option to steer the experience while also enjoying the journey as it unfolds.

Three months post my decision to stop drinking, I experienced my first lucid dream in over thirty years. This occurrence was timely as I anticipated facing various temptations. I believe the secret to sustaining sobriety isn't about toughening oneself to resist challenges but rather about steering clear of them altogether. Thankfully, my ability to lucid dream serves as a mental fortification when confronted with uncontrollable scenarios.

Family Reunion in Peru

Having just returned from a family visit to Peru, where my wife hails from, I realized how important this trip was after more than three years apart due to the pandemic. While I didn't drink much before relocating to Peru, the drinking culture shifts significantly when you are an expatriate with limited proficiency in the local language. In the U.S., I associate drinking with aggression, while in Peru, the focus is more on joy and dance.

Despite knowing our family needed this trip, I had concerns about potential temptations. Typically, upon arrival, my father-in-law greets us with drinks served in handmade ceramic glasses. I was uncertain how my family would react to my refusal: “No gracias. Estoy seco.” Thankfully, I was met with understanding rather than confusion. My sister-in-law even shared her experience of abstaining for six months before her wedding, highlighting the positive outcomes.

The Clarity of Sobriety

I'm grateful I didn't need to delve into lengthy explanations about my choice to abstain from alcohol. It’s crucial not to exaggerate the advantages of sobriety. There are still challenging days ahead. Sobriety often requires postponing short-term gratification for a more significant long-term benefit, reminding myself that I don’t want to feel worse in a few hours.

I was informed that the benefits of sobriety become evident after a couple of months, but I didn’t foresee lucid dreaming being one of those perks. Yet, it makes sense; sobriety breeds clarity, so why shouldn’t that clarity extend into our dreams? While some advantages are hard to quantify, I notice I have more energy daily, which I can channel into simple tasks like organizing my living space. A tidy environment contributes positively to well-being, transforming my mindset from “I’ll clean tomorrow” to “Everything feels right.”

Enhanced Creativity

Moreover, I've observed an increase in my writing income. I’m curious if my readers have noticed any shifts in the quality of my work lately. I feel invigorated and inspired, excited about this positive trajectory.

It's fascinating to recognize how minor adjustments can yield significant changes. Often, the disparity between the exceptional and the good is minimal, much like the results in Olympic events where a mere second can distinguish the winner from the rest.

Facing Old Challenges

The most significant challenge arose when I reconnected with old friends. I was eager to hear their stories and potentially collaborate on writing projects, yet I was apprehensive about falling back into drinking habits. Our past gatherings often revolved around playing Texas Hold 'em while enjoying beers. As an expat, these interactions provided comfort, especially when craving familiarity in a foreign land.

As we settled into our usual spot, I ordered a Diet Coke and shared my decision to abstain from alcohol. To my surprise, another friend mentioned he was also not drinking. However, he clarified it was a temporary measure due to legal issues, which made me reflect on the nature of our choices.

While we enjoyed our time, I found that I wasn’t tempted to drink. My thoughts drifted back to lucid dreams and the day ahead.

The Empowerment of Sobriety

Sobriety grants a sense of agency akin to being aware in a lucid dream. In that state, you can appreciate the experience without fear or anxiety, focusing on the nuances and enjoying the journey. This awareness translates into everyday life as well.

Currently, I’m experiencing increased financial success, heightened energy, and improved sleep. I used to rely on alcohol for relief, but now I find joy in genuine connections.

I believe in avoiding self-imposed tests; it’s unnecessary to put oneself in challenging situations. By steering clear of temptation, failure becomes impossible. Nonetheless, preparation for unforeseen challenges remains essential since life is inherently unpredictable.

The resurgence of lucid dreaming has fortified my determination. Being present in both dreams and reality is crucial, as life itself is a dream.

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