Chapter 1: Embracing Change

When I entered therapy this week, I wasn’t prepared for my therapist to suggest I return to a more stable profession. Surprised, I asked, "What do you mean?" She clarified that while following my passions is valuable, it might not provide the mental peace I seek.

I never imagined I’d find myself in this situation. As a single father, I often wonder what steps I need to take to truly discover myself. It’s easy to fall into a mental spiral about how life should look at 39.

I frequently make my circumstances seem worse than they are. Given the challenges I've faced in recent years, being in a therapist's office feels appropriate.

Her words jolted me back to reality. "George, are you prepared for our session?" she inquired, noting my distraction. Opening up in therapy has always been tough for me, as I tend to think analytically rather than emotionally. However, I've recognized that honesty is crucial, and a good therapist can see right through any facade.

At thirty-nine, I find myself without a clear direction. I've authored books, freelanced in marketing, and persevered, yet all of it feels hollow. Perhaps these endeavors were merely distractions from confronting reality.

It's time for a change of course. As Seth Godin aptly states, "Be the best in your world. The world rewards those who excel. If you cannot be the best, it might be time to let go."

To support my daughter, I need to become the best version of myself, aligning my values and knowledge with my aspirations. Embracing change and stepping back will give me the space to engage in activities I genuinely love. For now, this means revisiting my past role as an air traffic controller.

This shift will provide the stability I need to channel my energy into more meaningful writing. It’s about allowing life to unfold naturally.

Now, let’s turn the focus back to you, the reader.

What emotions arise when you find yourself pushing through challenges? While enduring tough times can yield rewards, it’s crucial to make wise decisions and avoid overextending yourself, as there are no strict timelines or checklists to follow.

Many, including myself, often fall into the trap of settling for less or dodging the reality of our situations, which leads to wasted time and effort.

Reflecting on my experiences, I recognize that life has gradually worn me down while I've sought meaning and purpose. I carry shame, guilt, and frustration when I look in the mirror. Years have blurred into a narrative that feels lost, and I am still attempting to comprehend how I arrived here.

Admitting the need to quit or make a change is no small feat. Yet, as Seth Godin reminds us, "You are extraordinary. Don’t squander it."

What it Means to Quit - YouTube

This video explores the notion of quitting as a path to gaining clarity and direction in life.

Chapter 2: The Power of Letting Go

I Quit (You Should Too) | Why The Great Resignation is Happening - YouTube

This video delves into the reasons behind the Great Resignation and how quitting can lead to personal fulfillment and growth.